Our Next Retrouvaille Experience is August 14-16, 2025 in Tewksbury, MA
What Does a Marriage That Needs Help Look Like?
Do You Feel Concerned About Your Marriage?
Does it feel like the strong connection you once felt is waning?
It might start with increased conflict over things that never caused issues before. Differences that once seemed intriguing now feel like obstacles.
Instead of focusing on unity, you find yourselves focused on individual concerns. This shift can be triggered by stressful situations like a sick family
member, job loss, or financial stress, leading to criticism, lack of empathy, or withdrawal by either party.
Communication may start to dwindle.
You may limit conversation to what's necessary to run the household, manage the family, or coordinate logistics.
Fear of conflict or arguments makes your relationship feel superficial as you spend less time together. You stop sharing your thoughts and feelings, and intimacy disappears from the relationship. Each spouse erects a wall, locking the other out.
At this point, divorce might be in the back of each person's mind as a potential escape from the uncomfortable situation.
You might feel despondent or hopeless about things improving.
You may avoid sleeping in the same bedroom or sleep at the edge of the bed to avoid physical contact. The emotional state of each spouse can range from grief and sadness to acceptance and resignation to the situation. It can continue like this for many years until one of you make a plea for change.
At this critical juncture, there are two options: get help or go your separate ways.
Neither solution is without consequences. It takes serious effort and hard work to bring a marriage back to health after years of neglect. Divorce may seem like an easy escape option, but even on the best of terms, couples will have to forgo financial resources to split assets, and divorces are expensive and disruptive to families. Even if you have no children, there is a separation of two families that have been joined together in your relationship. With children involved, the complications are endless and ongoing. Numerous studies reflect the difficulties that children of divorce face.
There is a Better Way
Start with the basics:
With better communication, intimacy can be restored, entrenched behaviors can be reversed, and things can get better. By seeking help and committing to the process, couples can rebuild their connection, overcome their differences, and create a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship.
Real Couples. Real Transformations.
At Retrouvaille of New England, we have helped countless couples rediscover the love and connection in their marriages. Here are some of their stories*:
(*not their real names).
John & Mary
"We were on the brink of divorce, feeling hopeless and disconnected. Retrouvaille gave us the tools to communicate effectively and rekindle our love. We are now closer than ever and grateful for the support we received."
Alex & Jennifer
"After years of unresolved conflict, we felt like roommates instead of partners. The Retrouvaille program taught us how to address our issues and rebuild our intimacy. It saved our marriage."
Mike & Laura
"Financial stress and job loss had taken a toll on our relationship. Retrouvaille provided a safe space for us to reconnect and understand each other's struggles. We have found a new level of empathy and support for each other."
James & Emma
"We were constantly arguing and felt distant. The weekend retreat and follow-up sessions were a turning point for us. We learned valuable skills that continue to strengthen our bond every day."
Take the First Step
If you are ready to transform your marriage and create a brighter future together, join us at our next weekend program. Register today and take the first step toward a stronger, more fulfilling marriage.
Join the Community
You are not alone in your struggles. Many couples have faced similar challenges and found hope and healing through Retrouvaille of New England. Our program offers a supportive community of couples who understand what you are going through and are committed to helping each other succeed.
Our Weekend: Reconnect, Rebuild, & Restore
Our weekend program is a transformative opportunity for couples to reconnect, rebuild, and restore their marriage. During this intensive experience, you'll learn new skills and make lasting changes that can strengthen your relationship for years to come.
Reconnect
The weekend retreat provides a safe and supportive environment for couples to reconnect emotionally. Through guided exercises and private discussions, you'll have the chance to rediscover the love and commitment that first brought you together.
Rebuild
With the help of experienced facilitators, you'll learn practical tools and techniques to address communication breakdowns, resolve conflicts, and rebuild trust. These skills are designed to help you navigate the challenges of married life with greater understanding and empathy.
Restore
Our program focuses on restoring the intimacy and closeness that may have been lost over time. By fostering open and honest communication, you'll be able to restore the emotional and physical connection that is vital to a healthy marriage.
Make Lasting Changes
The weekend is just the beginning. Following the retreat, you'll participate in post-weekend follow-up sessions that reinforce the skills you've learned and provide continued support. Additionally, our ongoing monthly marriage groups, available both in person and online, ensure that you have the resources and community to maintain the positive changes in your relationship.
Take this opportunity to invest in your marriage and create a stronger, more fulfilling future together. Join us for our next weekend program and take the first step toward reconnecting, rebuilding, and restoring your marriage.